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Family Dynamics

• Family First : Your Step-by-Step Plan for Creating a Phenomenal Family

• The Family First Workbook : Specific Tools, Strategies, and Skills for Creating a Phenomenal Family

• Families & How to Survive Them

Life Cycle Transitions

• Passages: Predictable Crises of Adult Life

• The Seasons of a Woman's Life

• The Seasons of a Man's Life

Strengthening Your Marriage/Marriage Enrichment

• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

• The Relationship Cure: a 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships

• Why Marriages Succeed or Fail : And How You Can Make Yours Last

• Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

• Reclaim Your Relationship : A Workbook of Exercises and Techniques to Help You Reconnect with Your Partner

• Relationship Rescue

• The Relationship Rescue Workbook

• Relationship Rescue : A Seven Step Strategy For Reconnecting With Your Partner (Audio CD)

• Love Is A Verb

• Do One Thing Different: Ten Simple Ways to Change Your Life

• Divorce Busting : A Step-By-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again

• The Divorce Remedy : The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage

• Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

• Getting the Love You Want Workbook : The New Couples' Study Guide

• Getting the Love You Want : A Guide for Couples (Audio CD)

Infidelity

• Getting Past the Affair : A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On -- Together or Apart

• After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

• After the Affair (Audio Cassette)

• How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not to

• NOT "Just Friends" : Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity

• Private Lies

Deciding Whether to Stay Together or Go

• Too Good To Leave Too Bad To Stay

• Are You the One for Me?: Knowing Who's Right and Avoiding Who's Wrong

Dealing With Divorce

• You Can Get Over Divorce: the 7-Step Program to Speed Your Healing So That You Can Get on With the Rest of Your Life

• Coming Apart

• Uncoupling: Turning Points in Intimate Relationships

• Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends

• Rebuilding Workbook: When Your Relationship Ends

• The Good Divorce

• We're Still Family: What Grown Children Have to Say about Their Parents' Divorce

• Healthy Divorce : For Parents and Children--An Original, Clinically Proven Program for Working Through the Fourteen Stages of Separation, Divorce, and Remarriage

Divorce and Children

• What About the Kids? : Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce

• Helping Your Kids Cope With Divorce the Sandcastles Way

• I Don't Want to Talk about It

• Dinosaur's Divorce

• Two Homes

• When Mom and Dad Divorce:: An Elf-Help Book for Kids

• It's Not Your Fault, Koko Bear: A Read-Together Book for Parents and Young Children During Divorce

• Mom's House, Dad's House for Kids : Feeling at Home in One Home or Two

Stepfamilies

• Stepfamily Realities: How to Overcome Difficulties and Have a Happy Family

• How To Win As A Stepfamily

• Stepfamilies: Myths and Realities

• Mom's House, Dad's House

• Keys to Successful Stepfathering

• Stepcoupling: Creating and Sustaining a Strong Marriage in Today's Blended Family

• The Truth about Stepfamilies: Real American Stepfamilies Speak Out about What Works and What Doesn't When It Comes to Creating a Family Together

• The Courage to Be a Stepmom: Finding Your Place Without Losing Yourself

Single Parenting

• Chicken Soup for the Single Parent's Soul : Stories of Hope, Healing and Humor

Parenting

• How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

• Siblings Without Rivalry

• Try and Make Me!: A Revolutionary Program for Raising Your Defiant Child Without Losing Your Cool

• Kids Are Worth It

• Just Because It Isnt Wrong Doesnt Make It Right

• Who's in Charge Anyway?

• Parenting With Wit And Wisdom From Barabara Coloroso

• Get Out of My Life, But First Could You Drive Me & Cheryl to the Mall: A Parent's Guide to the New Teenager

• The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Teens

• WHY Do They Act That Way? : A Survival Guide to the Adolescent Brain for You and Your Teen

• 1-2-3 Magic : Effective Discipline for Children 2-12

• 1-2-3 Magic (DVD) : Managing Difficult Behavior in Children 2-12 (DVD)

Learning Disabilities

• Facing Learning Disabilities : The Adult Years

• It's So Much Work to Be Your Friend: Helping the Child with Learning Disabilities Find Social Success

• The Misunderstood Child, Fourth Edition: Understanding and Coping With Your Child's Learning Disabilities

• Overcoming Underachieving : An Action Guide to Helping Your Child Succeed in School

• The Parent to Parent Handbook: Connecting Families of Children with Special Needs

• Succeeding Against The Odds

• Understanding Learning Disabilities: A Parent Guide and Workbook

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder

• Putting on the Brakes: Young People's Guide to Understanding Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder

• The Putting on the Brakes Activity Book for Young People with ADHD

• The ADHD Book of Lists: A Practical Guide for Helping Children and Teens with Attention Deficit Disorders

• Mastering Your Adult ADHD: A Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment Program Client Workbook

• Delivered from Distraction: Getting the Most Out of Life With Attention Deficit Disorder

• Driven To Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder from Childhood Through Adulthood

• Dr. Larry Silver's Advice to Parents on Adhd: Second Edition

Autism and Aspergers Syndrome

• The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome

• Asperger Syndrome and Difficult Moments: Practical Solutions for Tantrums, Rage, and Meltdowns

• Asperger's and Girls

• Asperger's What Does It Mean to Me?: A Workbook Explaining Self Awareness and Life Lessons to the Child or Youth with High Functioning Autism or Aspergers

• Asperger Syndrome and Adolescence: Helping Preteens and Teens Get Ready for the Real World

• A Mind Apart : Understanding Children with Autism and Asperger Syndrome

• The Social Skills Picture Book: Teaching Communication, Play and Emotion

• The Social Skills Picture Book: For High School and Beyond

Sexuality

• The Sex-Starved Marriage : Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple's Guide

• Hot Monogamy

• Passionate Marriage : Keeping Love & Intimacy Alive In Committed Relationships

• Resurrecting Sex: Solving Sexual Problems and Revolutionizing Your Relationship

• The 10-Second Kiss: How to Turn Your Relationship Into a Lifelong Romance -- in Just 24 Hours! a Magical Formula for Passion, Pleasure, and Playfulness

• The 10-Second Kiss : How To Turn Your Relationship Into A Lifelong Romance (Audio Cassette)

• Light Her Fire: How to Ignite Passion, Joy, and Excitement in the Women You Love

• Light His Fire: How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With You

• The New Male Sexuality: the Truth About Men, Sex, and Pleasure

• For Yourself: the Fulfillment of Female Sexuality

• For Each Other

• Sex and the Seasoned Woman: Pursuing the Passionate Life

Homosexuality

• My Child Is Gay: How Parents React When They Hear the News

• Coming Out As Parents : You And Your Homosexual Child

• When Husbands Come Out of the Closet

• Beyond Acceptance: Parents Of Lesbians & Gays Talk About Their Experiences

• The Other Side of the Closet : The Coming-Out Crisis for Straight Spouses and Families

• And Tango Makes Three

• Asha's mums

• Heather Has Two Mommies: 10th Anniversary Edition

• Felicia's Favorite Story

Mens Issues

• The Hazards of Being Male: Surviving the Myth of Masculine Privilege

• The New Male: From Self-Destruction to Self-Care

• Man Enough

• Male Menopause

• The Seasons of a Man's Life

• Fire in the Belly: on Being a Man

• Iron John: A Book about Men

• Finding Our Fathers

• Absent Fathers, Lost Sons: the Search for Masculine Identity

• Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys

Womens Issues

• Goddesses in Everywoman: Powerful Archetypes in Women's Lives

• Goddesses in Older Women: Archetypes in Women Over Fifty

• The Silent Passage : Revised and Updated Edition

• The Seasons of a Woman's Life

• Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confident and Courageous Daughters

Menopause

• Could it be Perimenopause? : How Women 35-50 Can Overcome Forgetfullness, Mood Swings

• The Silent Passage : Revised and Updated Edition

• Pause Revised For The New Millenniium

Wife Abuse

• Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts and You Don't Know Why

• The Emotionally Abusive Relationship : How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing

• The Emotionally Abused Woman: Overcoming Destructive Patterns and Reclaiming Yourself

• When Dad Hurts Mom

• Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

• The Gift of Fear

Anger Management

• The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships

• The Anger Control Workbook

• When Anger Hurts: Quieting the Storm Within

• Letting Go of Anger: The Eleven Most Common Anger Styles & What to Do about Them

• Stop the Anger Now: A Workbook for the Prevention, Containment, and Resolution of Anger

• The Anger Workbook

Adults Abused as Children

• Outgrowing the Pain: a Book for and About Adults Abused As Children

• Outgrowing the Pain Together

• Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life

• Adult Children of Abusive Parents

Sexual Abuse

For Adults

• The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, Featuring "Honoring the Truth: A Response to the Backlash"

• The Courage to Heal Workbook: For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse

• Adults Molested As Children: A Survivors Manual for Women and Men

• I Never Told Anyone: Writings by Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse

• The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Revised Edition)

• Victims No Longer (Second Edition): The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse

• Abused Boys: the Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse

• Wounded Boys Heroic Men: A Man's Guide to Recovering from Child Abuse

• Men Surviving Incest: A Male Survivor Shares the Process of Recovery

• The PTSD Workbook: Simple, Effective Techniques for Overcoming Traumatic Stress Symptoms

• Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Sourcebook

• The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Revised Edition)

For Children

• How Long Does It Hurt : A Guide to Recovering from Incest and Sexual Abuse for Teenagers, Their Friends, and Their Families

• Please Tell!: A Child's Story About Sexual Abuse

• It Happened to Me: A Teen's Guide to Overcoming Sexual Abuse

• Something Happened and I'm Scared to Tell: A Book for Young Victims of Abuse

For Parents

• When Your Child Has Been Molested: A Parents Guide to Healing and Recovery

For Partners

• Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Is a Survivor of Child Sexual Abuse

• Ghosts in the Bedroom: A Guide for the Partners of Incest Survivors

• What About Me?: A Guide for Men Helping Female Partners Deal with Childhood Sexual Abuse

Abuse Proofing

• A Very Touching Book...for Little People and for Big People

• Your Body Belongs to You

• It's My Body: A Book to Teach Young Children How to Resist Uncomfortable Touch

• The Berenstain Bears Learn About Strangers

• My Body Is Private

• Better Safe Than Sorry

• When Something Feels Wrong: A Survival Guide about Abuse for Young People

• No Is Not Enough: Helping Teenagers Avoid Sexual Assault

• The Gift of Fear

Sexual Addiction

• Out of the Shadows : Understanding Sexual Addiction

• Don't Call It Love: Recovery from Sexual Addiction

• Contrary to Love : Helping the Sexual Addict

• Hope and Recovery : A Twelve Step Guide for Healing from Compulsive Sexual Behavior

Internet Addiction

• In the Shadows of the Net : Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior

Alcoholism

• Controlling Your Drinking: Tools to Make Moderation Work for You

• Over the Influence: The Harm Reduction Guide for Managing Drugs and Alcohol

• The Alcoholic Family in Recovery : A Developmental Model

• Smashed

• Beyond the Influence: Understanding and Defeating Alcoholism

• Sober for Good: New Solutions for Drinking Problems -- Advice from Those Who Have Succeeded

• Sex, Drugs, Gambling & Chocolate: A Workbook for Overcoming Addictions

Adult Children of Alcoholics

• Adult Children of Alcoholics: Expanded Edition

• The Complete ACOA Sourcebook: Adult Children of Alcoholics at Home, at Work and in Love

• Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

• It Will Never Happen to Me: Growing Up with Addiction as Youngsters, Adolescents, Adults

• Perfect Daughters (Revised Edition): Adult Daughters of Alcoholics

• Children of Alcoholism: A Survivor's Manual

• Another Chance: Hope and Health for the Alcoholic Family

• Healing the Child Within: Discovery and Recovery for Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families

• Recovery: A Guide for Adult Children of Alcoholics

Eating Disorders

• The Hunger Within: An Twelve Week Guided Journey from Compulsive Eating to Recovery

• The Overcoming Bulimia Workbook: Your Comprehensive, Step-By-Step Guide to Recovery

• Overcoming Binge Eating

• When Your Child Has an Eating Disorder : A Step-by-Step Workbook for Parents and Other Caregivers

• The Eating Disorder Sourcebook

• Help Your Teenager Beat an Eating Disorder

• Eating with Your Anorexic

• Anorexia and Bulimia in the Family : One Parent's Practical Guide to Recovery

Anxiety

• The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook

• Beyond Anxiety and Phobia: A Step-By-Step Guide to Lifetime Recovery

• Coping with Anxiety: 10 Simple Ways to Relieve Anxiety, Fear & Worry

• The Shyness & Social Anxiety Workbook: Proven Techniques for Overcoming Your Fears

• 10 Simple Solutions to Shyness: How to Overcome Shyness, Social Anxiety, and Fear of Public Speaking

• Don't Panic Revised Edition: Taking Control of Anxiety Attacks

• From Panic to Power

• Calming Your Anxious Mind: How Mindfulness and Compassion Can Free You from Anxiety, Fear, and Panic

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

• Imp Of The Mind

• Stop Obsessing!: How to Overcome Your Obsessions and Compulsions

• The Ocd Workbook: Your Guide to Breaking Free from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

• Overcoming Obsessive & Compulsive Disorder - Client: Overcoming Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder Client Protocol for the Treatment of Ocd

• Talking Back to OCD : The Program That Helps Kids and Teens Say "No Way" -- and Parents Say "Way to Go"

• Loving Someone with OCD: Help for You & Your Family

Depression

• Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy

• Feeling Good Handbook

• Mind Over Mood: Change How You Feel by Changing the Way You Think

• The Mindful Way through Depression: Freeing Yourself from Chronic Unhappiness

• Breaking the Patterns of Depression

• Hand-Me-Down Blues

• The Depression Workbook: A Guide for Living with Depression and Manic Depression

• How You Can Survive When They're Depressed: Living and Coping With Depression Fallout

• The Family Intervention Guide to Mental Illness: Recognizing Symptoms and Getting Treatment

• Depression Fallout: The Impact of Depression on Couples and What You Can Do to Preserve the Bond

• Recovering from Depression: A Workbook for Teens

Bipolar Disorder

• The Bipolar Disorder Survival Guide : What You and Your Family Need to Know

• The Family Intervention Guide to Mental Illness: Recognizing Symptoms and Getting Treatment

• Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder: Understanding & Helping Your Partner

• Surviving Manic Depression: A Manual of Bipolar Disorder for Patients, Families, and Providers

• Brilliant Madness: Living With Manic Depressive Illness

• An Unquiet Mind: a Memoir of Moods and Madness

• The Bipolar Child: the Definitive and Reassuring Guide to Childhood's Most Misunderstood Disorder -- Third Edition

• The Bipolar Teen : What You Can Do to Help Your Child and Your Family

• Bipolar Kids: Helping Your Child Find Calm in the Mood Storm

Schizophrenia

• Surviving Schizophrenia: A Manual for Families, Patients, and Providers

• The Complete Family Guide to Schizophrenia : Helping Your Loved One Get the Most Out of Life

• The Family Intervention Guide to Mental Illness: Recognizing Symptoms and Getting Treatment

Personality Disorders

• Stop Walking on Eggshells

• The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook: Practical Strategies for Living with Someone Who Has Borderline Personality Disorder

• Sometimes I Act Crazy : Living with Borderline Personality Disorder

• I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality

• New Hope for People With Borderline Personality Disorder: Your Friendly, Authoritative Guide to the Latest in Traditional and Complementary Solutions

• Lost in the Mirror, 2nd Edition : An Inside Look at Borderline Personality Disorder

• Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds & Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem

• Understanding the Borderline Mother: Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship

• Why Is It Always About You? : The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism

• Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Up's Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents

• The Narcissistic Family : Diagnosis and Treatment

• Without Conscience : The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us

• Snakes in Suits: When Psychopaths Go to Work

• Bad Boys, Bad Men: Confronting Antisocial Personality Disorder

Suicide

• No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One

• Healing After the Suicide of a Loved One

• But I Didn't Say Goodbye: For Parents and Professionals Helping Child Suicide Survivors

• Someone I Love Died by Suicide: A Story for Child Survivors and Those Who Care for Them

Death, Dying and Grief

• How to Survive the Loss of a Love

• Grief Recovery Handbook, the (Revised: A Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce, and Other Devastating Losses

• Good Grief: A Constructive Approach to the Problem of Loss

• I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping and Healing After the Death of a Loved One

• Healing After Loss:: Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief

• Sad Isn't Bad: A Good-Grief Guidebook for Kids Dealing with Loss

• Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities for Helping Kids Cope When a Special Person Dies

• I Miss You: A First Look at Death

• The Fall of Freddie the Leaf : A Story of Life For All Ages

• Gentle Willow: A Story for Children about Dying

• Bereaved Children and Teens : A Support Guide for Parents and Professionals

Aging

• Goddesses in Older Women: Archetypes in Women Over Fifty

• Healthy Aging: a Lifelong Guide to Your Physical and Spiritual Well-Being

Caring for Aging Parents

• How to Care for Aging Parents

• Caring For Yourself While Caring For Your Aging Parents : How to Help, How to Survive

Stress

• Who Moved My Cheese

• The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook

• Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Face Stress, Pain, and Illness

• Guided Mindfulness Meditation (Audio CD)

Self Esteem

• The Self-Esteem Workbook

• Ten Days to Self-Esteem

Assertiveness

• Your Perfect Right: Assertiveness and Equality in Your Life and Relationships

• The Assertiveness Workbook: How to Express Your Ideas & Stand Up for Yourself at Work & in Relationships

• When I Say No, I Feel Guilty

Fibromyalgia

• The Fibromyalgia Advocate: Getting the Support You Need to Cope with Fibromyalgia and Myofascial Pain Syndrome

• Fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain: A Survival Manual